02 October, 2006

Who is going to get hella sleep tonight?

Me, I have earplugs.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

In regards to the sex noises. Sex noises are more of a social expectation than anything else. The reason the dude was grunting and not making noise was certianly not out of curtsey. In the media, when having sex, the men are silent and sweaty. To show pleasure or immense emotion is to show weakness. In the media, women are shown as most desireable when "sounding" sexy. Moaning, gasping, crying out. That's why Herbal Essences Commericals show women screaming and moaning. The commerical is basicly saying "To feel this good, feel this desireable you have to LOOK his good. To look this good, use our product." I think women are manipulated into believing that by making those noises, they will feel sexier and appear more desireable to the male.

Likewise, the man is lead to believe that the "proper" way to have sex is silently, or vugarly (I.e: Yeah! Take it bitch! Who's my whore? Etc.) Because to murmur/moan things like "I love you" during sex, is well, not masculine, not manly.

However, because I've never had sex, this could be completely wrong. Maybe women posess a button that when you hit it they scream real loud. *wonders*

Matthew A LaChance said...

That makes sense. I guess the idea of the ideal male is the strong, silent type. I just hate that the ideal female is the annoying yappy type. Seriously. Both guys AND girls suck if they are annoying and yappy. As for sex, yeah, that makes sense. I'm glad I never heard "Who's my whore." Also, earplugs are kind of uncomfortable. Not uncomfortable enough to not fall asleep, but uncomfortable enough to wake up just because they are not comfortable. But that ain't so bad. I can just take them out at that point.